Overcoming Rejections / Failures

Everyone experienced some sort of failure at a stage in life. I believe failures are a essential stepping stone for success. No one can harness their thoughts and sculpt the best version without stumbling upon the stones.

Some humans are not mentally prepared for rejections. I remember, it was my 9th grade when for the very first time I couldn't maintain a track of time management while giving my english literature test and ran out of time after attempting the first question. Yes, as academic failure , it was my first experience thou negligible to be counted since a class test but it aroused a feeling that I can be left behind too.

Coming to bigger aspects of life, accepting rejections is something everyone should have a control over. Highlighting general news in this generation about guy shooting a girl dead for turning down his proposal that too at a tender age of 16-17 made everyone skip a beat.

One of the news articles: https://indianexpress.com/article/cities/delhi/ghaziabad-tuition-centre-16-year-old-killed-girl-for-rejecting-proposal-cops/

I wonder how unstable the minds of such individuals are and how dangerouly poor at life they'll become when it will come to bigger failures.

Life is an unpredictable collection of events. And you may never know the next big failure coming your way. But taking lives or giving up your own is a solution for nowhere.

It breaks my heart to know how fragile one's soul becomes, once loaded with weights of life. Talk around. Be loud , open up and share your failures. Express whatsoever you feel , don't compress it. We all are together in this human survival. Let no one be deceased. The more we will share our stories , the more people in this world will feel they aren't alone. If the another person handles it then you too are no less stronger to bear and move on.

There was a person in my life- Late Mr. Bakshi ( my high school mathematics teacher ) , he was the first person after my father, who really touched my heart on explaining how the depth of failure varies according to your own assumptions. Never be afraid , you may tremble sometimes on your failures, but you classify it as huge or small depending upon the energy you process to push it back.

Be strong , train your mind to deal and overcome it. It is a part of the process. It will come and go to test your potential of fighting your own demons. Just know, you have to punch in a good fist whenever the time comes.

People often fear that they may lag behind in life and everyone will move on with their success. That is an unavoidable probability but never let it belittle you. If you put all your bits into the hardwork then you already fixated your roots strong and no winds of rejections can move a single strands of your hair.

Whatever edge life drops you at, just keep paddling the bicycle to maintain the balance within yourself. You may paddle slow or fast but never halt, else you will fall deep.