22/02/2022 Just a PALINDROME DATE or Something Deeper?

If you wonder what's a palindrome then here is a brief elucidation -

When we have any verse/ number/ word that reads the same forward as backward, then we call it a palindrome.

Usually, when we talk about the two(s), we consider it a pair , twin, match and further more. Now, if we closely observe the universe, we find a pattern belonging to this deuce number occuring unremittingly.

Hard talk for the incredulous crowd but is it really indicating towards something of great importance that we might be skipping?

Balance in life is the most important aspect that we often mismanage in the chaos of work. Back to when u used to be a crawler till u got a firm hold, putting all your tiny body weight over those feeble feet, most of your world has been revolving around 'balance'.

Modern day relationships experience more failure. Why? Because of a wreckage that over a slash of time expands enough to create a fettered madness with self. Eventually, a large part of your bond is lost somewhere in the gap.

Sometimes, you have a feeling of not being a capable parent or spouse or child because the energy you invested for balancing life didn't hold the roots firm. From that moment, you start falling apart from yourself. You slowly start disappearing, losing interest in almost everything. But, for some it might just be a phase of a day or week after which they are back into the consiuosness of life. Being able to pull back yourself is one of the most powerful skills you may possess.

So now, the question arises -

" Is there anything like a perfect balance? If yes, then how can we achieve it? ".

What do you feel? Is there anything like perfect? Maybe no . But there is a 'nearly perfect' for sure. While making a sketch, we feel the need to erase a crease as many times until our subconsiousness tells us that yes now it looks nearly perfect. Similarily, balance out till you feel - alright it's almost perfect it can't be more now.

Got a partner? Cancel some of the dates. Arrange a slumber party with your girls. Maintain the balance. Let not your peers feel the difference in the - before and after.

Love skating but graduation is a must? Talk to your faculty. Don't devote hours in vain. Join a club request the trainer for flexible hours. No, it won't make it hectic but the feeling of doing something you are passionate about will keep your energies high during the college hours too. Hence, making you complete your projects and homeworks more efficiently.

Got a new job? Cancel some weekend shopping and go visit family. Plan out a picnic date. Don't feel them left-out after you got involved in your own life.

Running erands? Business can be way more stressful than the flexible timings and luxurious after events. Drop down your work 15 mins prior once in a blue moon. Book your child a pizza and pineapple curd. Get in their play space. Spend some time with them. Listen to their school stories. Children who are left-out by their parents often grow to be more snob and self confined.

There are many things evolved till dates. And of course modern stress can be tackled down with modern techniques. Blessed are those who can feel the physical presence of their loved ones. But places where you can't feel the warmth of your love bugs, run your fingers through keypad. Video call, voice letters, cover the minute gaps with technology, it always got your back. Don't find excuses to hew the balance.